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Friday, February 22, 2013
Review: Trail Guide to Learning - Paths of Exploration
It's time! Time to share my thoughts on the uses and functions of the Paths of Exploration curriculum, part of the Trail Guide to Learning series. I shared my excitement with you when receiving the box of curriculum in the mail here and I also shared how I organized our "path" here.
I am going to start with the end... which is to say... I. LOVE. THIS. CURRICULUM! There. I said it. I do, I truly love this curriculum. It fits my son SO perfectly and has resolved so many struggles that he's previously experienced in other curriculums. "Oh sure!", you might say. I know what you're thinking... how can ONE curriculum be the answer? Well, let me tell you how.
First, let me give you a little background, though. I am using this curriculum for my 10 year old (turns 11 tomorrow) ALL boy, boy. When I say he's "all boy" what I mean is he is a rough n tumble, can't sit for very long because I need to move, kind of kid. He is easily distracted and enjoys DOING rather than sitting. He is not one that is thrilled to sit with a book for hours on end and he will certainly slump into a puddle of human goo at the thought of being handed a dry textbook to read. I love this boy to death but he is a very different learner from my 13 year old son who is content to be handed a stack of books and a checklist and sit for hours reading to learn.
I'll be honest... I took a chance with Trail Guide to Learning. It was a departure from the style of learning I'd been using before and what I was used to. It was scary to spend money on a curriculum I wasn't sure would work and I was fearful that if POE DIDN'T work, I'd be left scrambling mid-year to find something else. But, I'm so glad I did take that chance!
We started school after Labor Day and my son actually ENJOYED the first few weeks of school with POE (Paths of Exploration). Insert BIG MISTAKE here. I got panicky and thought maybe we weren't doing enough since he was finishing earlier in the day than we were used to, so... I added more curriculum. Dumb. Dumb. Dumb. Within a week, the boy that was beginning to take an interest in learning, now was back to his old ways of dragging his feet at doing anything remotely to do with learning, complaining and miserable. We both were. What was I thinking?? So, the beginning of October, I scrapped all "extra" curriculum and have been flying solo with POE ever since! It's been enjoyable... for both of us now!
So here are my seven reasons that the Trail Guide to Learning series is the answer to our curriculum needs for my second born:
* IT HAS BUILT-IN HANDS- ON ACTIVITIES. POE provides a perfect balance of hands on activities to keep the "active" part of my son engaged. I was always left scrambling to come up with hands on activities that would fit our lessons before OR they would be dropped by the end of the day because we'd finish too late to start one (often because he would drag and resist moving from subject to subject; he was miserable!) Now, instead of feeling like the hands on activities compete for our time, they are built into our days! Most importantly, this engages my son's learning style!
* IT'S ORGANIZED WELL. POE is organized very well. It takes a great load off of my plate having curriculum so well laid out. I even did the printing in advance of all the units, organized them into weekly file folders and then moved the daily sheets into daily folders for his each week. I do some quick skimming of what supplies, if any, I need for that week and that's it!
* THE THEMES FLOW TOGETHER. I'll be honest, at first this bugged the history major in me. I like my history chronological. While POE seems to "jump" around through US History, it is actually connecting themes together. For Paths of Exploration the theme is, well, exploration. Yet, so much more is discussed and learned than just exploration. My son has walked away from the first 3 Units with a solid grasp of Christopher Columbus and his era, Jamestown and their struggles, and the Pilgrims and their struggles to survive and make a new start.
*GEOGRAPHY IS INCORPORATED. This is a topic we never got around too, so my husband and I are amazed by my son's knowledge of the areas he has studied thus far and his ease with reading a map! All thanks to POE!
* IT IGNITES INTEREST IN LEARNING. Yes, this is a big claim but it is true for our household. While I always admired the Charlotte Mason approach, I never could nail down the timing of moving from subject to subject. The teacher in me felt that more time meant more learning and no matter how hard I tried, I would slip back into that mentality. Prior to POE, I was a Charlotte Mason failure. POE has brought this style of learning into our home successfully and my son has benefited greatly from it. POE does an excellent job of dividing up the information into short, manageable chunks (something that made me panic in the beginning because it felt too short). They are just right for my son's style of learning. However, for me, I was sold once I saw that he was RETAINING the information, shattering the myth that long amounts of time needed to be grasp a concept. POE provides short bursts of concepts that are reinforced throughout each unit which has led to success for my son!
* IT INCREASES RETENTION. I can't claim this for every child but for mine, POE has been a lifesaver. Due to lack of interest and a growing resentment to learning in prior years, my son didn't retain information presented to him. Now, he is blossoming! He is remembering information which allows him to taste success and confidence in his knowledge base. He no longer feels like a failure in education. This, to me, is top on my list of why POE is the perfect curriculum.
* IT BRINGS IMPROVEMENT IN WRITING AND SPELLING. My son struggled with his handwriting and with spelling. He still does but we have seen great improvement over the past few months in both areas. I give POE credit for this because of the daily copy work and spelling words he is exposed to. I will say that we have had my son tested for Dyslexia. He still shows some evidence of this, even if mild, so we may add a program next year to give him greater support.
I know this review was long but there is so much I could speak on regarding this curriculum. I can't answer what this curriculum will do to revolutionize the learning in your own children, I can say that it has definitely revolutionized and ignited an interest in learning in a child that was otherwise fed-up with school, at the ripe ol age of 9. He still has areas of struggle but, through POE, he has been given a taste of success and has improved his confidence, his interest and his desire to learn more! We can't wait to start Paths of Settlement next year! Please feel free to leave a comment with questions you may have that I didn't cover here.
** In exchange for an honest review of my independent thoughts, I was given a discount on the Paths of Exploration curriculum.**
Friday, January 25, 2013
14,049 days...
That's how long I've been alive on this earth today. Seeing our lives as days numbered really drives home how short our time is here and encourages us not to waste our days and time on frivolity.
There's something about putting our time into days that takes my breath away. On one hand, I think, "what have I done with 14,049 days??" and on the other I think, "Wow, God willing if I live to be 70 (neither of my parents did) that would be (from birth to death), 25, 568 days. That means I would only have 11, 527 days left, God providing, I live to be 70 years old. That means that half of my life is most likely over.
Psalm 90:12 says, "Teach us to number our days, so we may gain a heart of wisdom". After having reviewed the book, "20,000 days and counting" by Robert D. Smith recently, I decided I convert my years into days. WOW! Was that eye opening!
Putting my life into days made me more aware of how I've spent my time and, from this point forward, how I SHOULD be spending my time. My heart has gained wisdom from this one small act and it longs to rectify my misuse and mismanagement of time. Sadly, I can't do that. I mourn for the days that I squandered away on a whole lotta nothin'! Ouch! I'm not talking days where restorative rest was needed and taken or days spent consoling wounded hearts and frustrations in my children. No. I'm talking the wasted time with computers, phones and t.v. Wasted time that wasn't accomplishing anything - including restoring and refreshing my soul. Wisdom has been gained here; now, I pray, I use it and make appropriate changes in my life.
What I can do, though, is look forward - to the days ahead and align my time more and more with how God would have me use it.
Now more than ever, my one little word for 2013 is taking new meaning about how I should approach my next 329 days of 2013.
Seeing my life through days instead of years has been eye opening and makes me appreciate my life lived so far (minus those silly days) and it is making me think about the upcoming days God would bless me with; if He blesses me with them.
I encourage you, as the writer of Psalm 90 does, to calculate your life into days. Know how many days you've been on earth and wonder how many days you may (or may not) have left. Put your life into perspective and gain a heart of wisdom.
If you want to see how many days you've been around, go here and marvel at both the days that have floated away and how very short life can be.
Let me live my days well, not according to man's standards, but by God's standards.
There's something about putting our time into days that takes my breath away. On one hand, I think, "what have I done with 14,049 days??" and on the other I think, "Wow, God willing if I live to be 70 (neither of my parents did) that would be (from birth to death), 25, 568 days. That means I would only have 11, 527 days left, God providing, I live to be 70 years old. That means that half of my life is most likely over.
Psalm 90:12 says, "Teach us to number our days, so we may gain a heart of wisdom". After having reviewed the book, "20,000 days and counting" by Robert D. Smith recently, I decided I convert my years into days. WOW! Was that eye opening!
Putting my life into days made me more aware of how I've spent my time and, from this point forward, how I SHOULD be spending my time. My heart has gained wisdom from this one small act and it longs to rectify my misuse and mismanagement of time. Sadly, I can't do that. I mourn for the days that I squandered away on a whole lotta nothin'! Ouch! I'm not talking days where restorative rest was needed and taken or days spent consoling wounded hearts and frustrations in my children. No. I'm talking the wasted time with computers, phones and t.v. Wasted time that wasn't accomplishing anything - including restoring and refreshing my soul. Wisdom has been gained here; now, I pray, I use it and make appropriate changes in my life.
What I can do, though, is look forward - to the days ahead and align my time more and more with how God would have me use it.
Now more than ever, my one little word for 2013 is taking new meaning about how I should approach my next 329 days of 2013.
Seeing my life through days instead of years has been eye opening and makes me appreciate my life lived so far (minus those silly days) and it is making me think about the upcoming days God would bless me with; if He blesses me with them.
I encourage you, as the writer of Psalm 90 does, to calculate your life into days. Know how many days you've been on earth and wonder how many days you may (or may not) have left. Put your life into perspective and gain a heart of wisdom.
If you want to see how many days you've been around, go here and marvel at both the days that have floated away and how very short life can be.
Let me live my days well, not according to man's standards, but by God's standards.
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Book review: Live Second
Prior to reviewing the devotional book, "Live Second"; 365 to Make Jesus First", I had never heard of this "movement" which many have associated themselves. I was intrigued by this extra subtitle, "an I Am Second daily reader". Although leery at the thought of reviewing a devotional, I am so glad I was able to review this one! to start with, I am impressed with its organization and layout. It's structure is a weekly theme, broken out over the days of the week, throughout the whole year. i enjoyed seeing the upcoming topics as well as the unity of its purpose. However, I am most impressed with its delivery and message.
This devotional is for those daring to live second and let Jesus be first. The topics covered are vast yet not too broad to have a scattered feel. They are each week's theme and each day's devotion challenges us and encourages us to live putting our wants and desires second (or even third or fourth). This is a huge departure from today's culture that encourages looking out for me only.
The "Live Second" devotional is written to anyone, regardless of where you are on your faith journey or even if you don't have a relationship with Jesus as well. I admired this statement at the beginning of the book,
"This book is for anyone looking to discover meaning in life, your mission on this planet, or the cure to life’s difficulties. You do not need to believe in Jesus to start this journey, but I think you will be challenged by his message before you trek too far. I believe the power of his love, the vastness of his forgiveness, and the strength of his presence will inspire you to rethink your relationship with God.”
I received the Kindle version of this devotional for review and it included links to videos of those part of "Live Second" at the start of each week. That was a nice bonus!
I would highly recommend this devotional to anyone looking to be challenged in living your life differently than how you currently are and for those seeking to live out the idea of " More of Him, Less of Me". http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/B008GVYX5I/ref=sib_dp_kd#reader-link
Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Book Review: 20,000 Days and Counting
The book, "20,000 Days and Counting" by Robert D. Smith is a short read and one that I would recommend, but with a word of caution.
The premise is the author realized, at the time of writing, that he'd been alive for 20,000 days. Always aware of our limited days on this earth, he has spent his life trying to make the most of the time given to him. Through this short book, Smith encourages his readers with practical instructions for living purposefully, with whatever time we're given on this earth.
I enjoyed this read. It took me less than an hour to read it and I liked that the author got me thinking about how I carry out my days. Am I aware and fully present in each moment? Do I have a plan for the time I have before me, however short or long that is?
At his 20,000th day mark, he took a personal retreat to a hotel and planned out, what he hoped, would be his next 20,000 days. Based on a personal mission statement he created for himself, Smith chooses to live each of his days, making sure he completes areas of his mission statement.
Like I said, I did enjoy reading this book and was excited to learn more through a Biblical lens since this was a Christian publisher and Smith himself talks about his relationship with Christ in the beginning of the book. However, I found myself disappointed mid-way through as more and more of the instructions (if not all, really) are SELF-based, that is, they are written from the viewpoint that I am in control of all aspects of my life (short of the day I will die). There is no leaning in on God and his encouragements of making plans do not come with the caveat of holding them loosely in your hands. As a planner personality myself, I have learned over the years to hold my plans loosely to allow God room to tweak or even roll out a new set of plans. Yet, we aren't encouraged in that way. In fact, as the book goes on and on, it becomes more psychological and somewhat New-Age in philosophy and I found myself yearning to have had more Biblical input and encouragement. Yes, the Bible does say to "Teach us to number our days" - and we should! We should be aware of our inevitable death so that we might fully live. However, we should be looking at the One who would "Teach us" not only to ourselves.
Overall, I did like the perspective Robert Smith lives with and there are a few thoughts that I have taken away from this read that I will apply to my life, in different ways.
*** Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book from Booksneeze.com in return for an honest, unbiased review. ***
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Monday, January 14, 2013
My One Little Word for 2013
Even though the word was upon my lips and tugging at my heart for weeks, I resisted. It seemed too glib; too overused. Yet, it stayed, pressing into my brain as the days drew closer to January 1. This is meant to be my theme for 2013. Within this word contains untold lessons that God is wanting to teach me. I am ready, Lord.
Simplify..
That is my one little word for 2013. I breathe lighter when I whisper it. That is how I know it is right. It resonates within and I know simplifying, as simple as it sounds, isn't so much for me.
The other word that came to me was Be. However, for me, for this year, Be, is encompassed in Simplify.
I'm being called to simplify my life. All of it. All.
My schedule.
My cabinets and drawers.
My school supplies.
My activities and commitments.
My relationships.
My past.
My future.
My present.
I am being called to Be present, in the moment of motherhood; in my responsibilities at home and with my family. I can only Be present when life has simplified. When technology and emails, demands and commitments have all been examined and put in their proper context; When my drawers and closets and garage no longer scream at me every time I open them; When I no longer have to clammer over the piles of unresolved junk in my physical, emotional and spiritual life. When these areas are approached with simplicity, I can Be with Him.
Simplify.
Yes.
Be.
Most Definitely!
What is your one little word for 2013?
Simplify..
That is my one little word for 2013. I breathe lighter when I whisper it. That is how I know it is right. It resonates within and I know simplifying, as simple as it sounds, isn't so much for me.
The other word that came to me was Be. However, for me, for this year, Be, is encompassed in Simplify.
I'm being called to simplify my life. All of it. All.
My schedule.
My cabinets and drawers.
My school supplies.
My activities and commitments.
My relationships.
My past.
My future.
My present.
I am being called to Be present, in the moment of motherhood; in my responsibilities at home and with my family. I can only Be present when life has simplified. When technology and emails, demands and commitments have all been examined and put in their proper context; When my drawers and closets and garage no longer scream at me every time I open them; When I no longer have to clammer over the piles of unresolved junk in my physical, emotional and spiritual life. When these areas are approached with simplicity, I can Be with Him.
Simplify.
Yes.
Be.
Most Definitely!
What is your one little word for 2013?
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Saturday, January 12, 2013
Book Review: I Am A Follower: The Way,Truth, And Life of Following Jesus
Leonard Sweet's book, "I Am A Follower; The Way, Truth and Life of Following Jesus" was written for any Christian that is looking for effective leadership models. In an era when churches tend to follow the world's business structure, Sweet reminds us that leaders, in any shape and form, are to be followers of Christ first and foremost.
In Sweet's own words, he describes the layout of his book in this way:
Following Jesus' lead, this book is organized into three parts to reflect Jesus' three-part story: the way, the truth and the life.
Sweet goes on to say that when we try to emulate the world's view of leadership, it becomes about ME and not Him.
When we focus on the world's view of leadership, being a Christian becomes more about blazing our own trail than tracking another's footsteps, more about being happy than knowing truth, more about creating a guide to living than accepting the gift of life.
So often, church leaders look to the world for examples of leadership when we've had the perfect model of leadership in Jesus all along. Instead of looking for the next "10 steps to being a better leader", those who are called to a leader role should be looking at how Jesus served.
I enjoyed stretching my definition of leadership and while I've always held the opinion that leaders need to exercise discipline of serving above anything else, I have to say I agree that, above anything else, a leader should be wholly relying on Jesus' example and pointing the way for others to follow as well, as Leonard Sweet argues.
I encourage you to check out "I Am A Follower: The Way, Truth And Life of Following Jesus. You'll think about leadership for Christian a little differently.
** Disclaimer: I received this book, free of charge from Thomas Nelson, for an honest, unbiased review.
Monday, January 7, 2013
Reading list for 2013
I used to categorize the books I wished to read each year. However, in an effort to simplify, I'm just listing them as I go! Yeah, I like to walk on the wild side every once in awhile! :-) Anyway, I love doing a list because it keeps me accountable to read, learn and grow.
Here we go!
24/6 : A prescription of a happier, healthier life
Confessions of a Prayer Slacker
Anything: The Prayer That Unlocked My God and My Soul
No Other Gods; Confronting Our Modern Day Idols
Think: The Life Of The Mind and The Love Of The God
Safe People: How To Find Relationships That Are Good For You and Avoid Those That Aren't
Messy Church: A Multi-Generational Mission for God's Family
Barefoot Church: Serving The Least In A Consumer Culture
That's My Teenage Son: How Moms Can Influence Their Sons To Become Good Men
It Starts At Home: A Practical Guide to Nurturing A Lifelong Faith
Your God Is Too Safe
UnGlued: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Raw Emotions
Smart Women Know When To Say No
The Fitting Room: Putting On The Character of Christ
One Thousand Gifts: The Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are
How Healed Do You Want To Be?
Pleasing People: How Not to Be An Approval Junkie
Sifted: God's Scandalous Response To Satan's Outrageous Demand
Kiss Me Like You Mean It: Solomon's Crazy In Love How-To Manual
Glorious Mess: encountering God's Relentless Grace For Imperfect People
Let.It.Go
If I read different books throughout the year, I'll add them to the list!
Here we go!
24/6 : A prescription of a happier, healthier life
Confessions of a Prayer Slacker
Anything: The Prayer That Unlocked My God and My Soul
No Other Gods; Confronting Our Modern Day Idols
Think: The Life Of The Mind and The Love Of The God
Safe People: How To Find Relationships That Are Good For You and Avoid Those That Aren't
Messy Church: A Multi-Generational Mission for God's Family
Barefoot Church: Serving The Least In A Consumer Culture
That's My Teenage Son: How Moms Can Influence Their Sons To Become Good Men
It Starts At Home: A Practical Guide to Nurturing A Lifelong Faith
Your God Is Too Safe
UnGlued: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Raw Emotions
Smart Women Know When To Say No
The Fitting Room: Putting On The Character of Christ
One Thousand Gifts: The Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are
How Healed Do You Want To Be?
Pleasing People: How Not to Be An Approval Junkie
Sifted: God's Scandalous Response To Satan's Outrageous Demand
Kiss Me Like You Mean It: Solomon's Crazy In Love How-To Manual
Glorious Mess: encountering God's Relentless Grace For Imperfect People
Let.It.Go
If I read different books throughout the year, I'll add them to the list!
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